I'm guessing that Hae finds out that Hyuk is dating IU. I remember that's when Hyuk was really fangirling over IU at the year end shows.
These two idiots are dating people to help them forget each other but they don't really love who they are dating. I actually feel sorry for Andy. He really seems to like Hae a lot, and not that Hae doesn't like Andy, but he just doesn't like Andy as much as Andy likes him. I don't know how Hae could date Andy for so long, it's been at least 4-6 months if not longer, when all he thinks about is Hyuk, his notes, his smile, etc, and it's not fair to Andy. The one thing I do like about Hae dating Andy is now he knows how much patience Hyuk had when dealing with clingy and childish Hae.
When Hyuk and Hae are in Taiwan, without the constant reminders of Andy, Hyuk tries to bring back the friendship they once had before they lost sight of it because of their broken relationship. They start to act like the best friends they once were, with slight romantic undertones of their previous relationship. Hyuk knows that Hae is lonely and feels left out and would rather be with the members, even though the others are envious of Hae's and Siwon's opportunity to be in a drama. Then Andy returns and throws their friendship back into that awkward phase, reminding them that they were fooling themselves thinking they could have a friendship with intimate undertones and not let it affect them. Hae and Hyuk were probably lulled into this dream that they could go back to how it was before then Andy's return brought them back to reality, a reality that Hae doesn't want to face which is why he's mad at Andy for no reason. And Andy's return brought Hyuk back to reality that Hae isn't his anymore and that Hae is in a relationship so any sense that they would go back to how they were was just a dream.
The most difficult thing about a break up is the next relationship. If you still love the person after a break up and someone asks you out then it's difficult to know if you should date or not. You don't want to use the person to get over the ex-boyfriend, but at the same time the new person may help you forget the ex-boyfriend and even be better for you. The new person might be who you should really be with but you don't know until you try dating again. So I can't blame Hae for dating Andy when it seems that he and Hyuk may never get back together because Hae wants to love and be loved, and why should he stay single and wait for something that may not happen and possibly miss the opportunity to meet someone who makes him feel as special or even more special than when he was with Hyuk. But at the same time there's something about the way that Hae treats his relationship with Andy that I don't like. I can't really put it into words - maybe that Hae doesn't take it seriously, like he knows it's temporary until he can be with Hyuk again, or maybe that Hae continues to date Andy when he knows that Andy isn't the one to make him forget Hyuk or the one that's better than Hyuk. I don't know what it is about Hae and how he treats his relationship with Andy that I don't like, but there's something there that I can't put into words.
And if the thing that punches Hae in the gut is Hyuk dating IU or anyone else then I can only say that's probably how Hyuk felt when he found out that Hae was dating Andy. Hae isn't the only one to get that punch to the gut. The thing with Hae is that he wouldn't realize that Hyuk felt that same way about Hae and Andy dating. And that's what I can't stand about Hae in this story: how Hae has known Hyuk for years, they even dated each other, and Hae even thinks that Hyuk is the love of his life, but he doesn't seem to understand what Hyuk is going through AT ALL, what Hyuk feels or wants, while Hyuk knows exactly how Hae feels, needs and wants. What Hae thinks Hyuk is feeling is almost the exact opposite of what Hyuk is really feeling, how is that?! Is Hae that self-involved that he can't relate to Hyuk at all? He didn't see or feel that Hyuk was going through something monumental when Hyuk's friend was blackmailing him yet Hyuk is able to know that a friendly game of basketball would lift Hae's spirits. Sometimes I wonder why Hyuk wants to date someone like Hae.
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These two idiots are dating people to help them forget each other but they don't really love who they are dating. I actually feel sorry for Andy. He really seems to like Hae a lot, and not that Hae doesn't like Andy, but he just doesn't like Andy as much as Andy likes him. I don't know how Hae could date Andy for so long, it's been at least 4-6 months if not longer, when all he thinks about is Hyuk, his notes, his smile, etc, and it's not fair to Andy. The one thing I do like about Hae dating Andy is now he knows how much patience Hyuk had when dealing with clingy and childish Hae.
When Hyuk and Hae are in Taiwan, without the constant reminders of Andy, Hyuk tries to bring back the friendship they once had before they lost sight of it because of their broken relationship. They start to act like the best friends they once were, with slight romantic undertones of their previous relationship. Hyuk knows that Hae is lonely and feels left out and would rather be with the members, even though the others are envious of Hae's and Siwon's opportunity to be in a drama. Then Andy returns and throws their friendship back into that awkward phase, reminding them that they were fooling themselves thinking they could have a friendship with intimate undertones and not let it affect them. Hae and Hyuk were probably lulled into this dream that they could go back to how it was before then Andy's return brought them back to reality, a reality that Hae doesn't want to face which is why he's mad at Andy for no reason. And Andy's return brought Hyuk back to reality that Hae isn't his anymore and that Hae is in a relationship so any sense that they would go back to how they were was just a dream.
The most difficult thing about a break up is the next relationship. If you still love the person after a break up and someone asks you out then it's difficult to know if you should date or not. You don't want to use the person to get over the ex-boyfriend, but at the same time the new person may help you forget the ex-boyfriend and even be better for you. The new person might be who you should really be with but you don't know until you try dating again. So I can't blame Hae for dating Andy when it seems that he and Hyuk may never get back together because Hae wants to love and be loved, and why should he stay single and wait for something that may not happen and possibly miss the opportunity to meet someone who makes him feel as special or even more special than when he was with Hyuk. But at the same time there's something about the way that Hae treats his relationship with Andy that I don't like. I can't really put it into words - maybe that Hae doesn't take it seriously, like he knows it's temporary until he can be with Hyuk again, or maybe that Hae continues to date Andy when he knows that Andy isn't the one to make him forget Hyuk or the one that's better than Hyuk. I don't know what it is about Hae and how he treats his relationship with Andy that I don't like, but there's something there that I can't put into words.
And if the thing that punches Hae in the gut is Hyuk dating IU or anyone else then I can only say that's probably how Hyuk felt when he found out that Hae was dating Andy. Hae isn't the only one to get that punch to the gut. The thing with Hae is that he wouldn't realize that Hyuk felt that same way about Hae and Andy dating. And that's what I can't stand about Hae in this story: how Hae has known Hyuk for years, they even dated each other, and Hae even thinks that Hyuk is the love of his life, but he doesn't seem to understand what Hyuk is going through AT ALL, what Hyuk feels or wants, while Hyuk knows exactly how Hae feels, needs and wants. What Hae thinks Hyuk is feeling is almost the exact opposite of what Hyuk is really feeling, how is that?! Is Hae that self-involved that he can't relate to Hyuk at all? He didn't see or feel that Hyuk was going through something monumental when Hyuk's friend was blackmailing him yet Hyuk is able to know that a friendly game of basketball would lift Hae's spirits. Sometimes I wonder why Hyuk wants to date someone like Hae.